Don't Be Caught Dead: Grief, Loss, Death Literacy and Getting Prepared
After surviving a serious car accident in 2019, and then losing a close friend suddenly in 2023, Catherine Ashton discovered a hard truth: most families have no plan for death, and they pay for it in confusion, stress, and decisions made in crisis. Don't Be Caught Dead exists so yours doesn't have to.
Each episode is an honest, often deeply personal conversation, with people who've lived through grief, sudden illness, and caring for a dying loved one, alongside experts in aged care, palliative care, estate law, funeral planning, and financial advice. It's a show for anyone quietly aware they're becoming the one responsible for a parent, a partner, or their own end of life planning, and who wants to feel ready rather than blindsided.
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You'll also pick up the practical groundwork here: how to prepare a will, appoint a power of attorney and enduring guardian, set up an advance care directive, plan a funeral in advance, and navigate the health and legal systems families are so often forced into with no warning.
The free Critical Info Platform can help you turn any of it into an actual plan, and if someone close to you has just died, our guide "My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?" walks you through the immediate steps.
Hosted by Catherine Ashton, founder of Australian social enterprise Critical Info.
Learn more: www.criticalinfo.com.au
Don't Be Caught Dead: Grief, Loss, Death Literacy and Getting Prepared
The Fabric of Dying: How a Stitched Map Sparks End-of-Life Talks
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Ever wondered if a simple box of fabric and words could unlock the toughest chats about dying? In this episode, I dive into the world of the Bioscope with Chetan Shastri, a Melbourne designer who's turned death into a navigable map – literally. It’s not some dusty chart; it’s a tactile, embroidered toolkit that sparks real talk about end-of-life wishes, from home to hospice, without the awkward silence.
Chetan shares how his Indian roots, from street bioscopes with spinning films to his mum’s hand-stitched embroidery, fused with global adventures in Cambodia’s mass funerals and India’s ‘city of death’ in Varanasi. Back in Australia, he wrestled with our hospital-heavy approach to dying, creating the Bioscope to decolonise death – reclaiming it from white coats and back to heartfelt conversations. We chat about his PhD journey, co-designing with palliative pros at places like Peter Mac and Alfred Health, and how this award-winning tool (shoutout to the Victorian Premier's Design Awards and Design Outlook) helps folks grieve, plan, and even cry it out at community sessions.
It’s a reminder that facing death head-on isn’t morbid – it’s what makes life authentic. Chetan’s work shows design can bridge cultures and taboos, turning ‘the end’ into a shared story.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Bioscope origins from Indian cinema boxes to fabric map of dying sites like hospital and hospice.
- Global death rituals from Varanasi wood pyres to Cambodia delayed funerals.
- Decolonising death from medical control to cultural conversations.
- Co-designing with palliative experts at Peter Mac and Alfred, award wins and community use.
Resources & links mentioned:
Connect. with Chetan
Instagram: @shastrichetan
Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine
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MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?
Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.
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